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Valentines Messages For Blog Readers 2021

And so we come to the last of our channeled messages for 2021. These messages are for all who read this blogpost. Perhaps some messages, or all, may resonate with you.

Cupid seems to be continuing his message from the general messages, and others also seem to be echoing similar similar sentiments they’ve already expressed. You may want to read the general messages for all readers, too. Be sure not to miss QuanYin’s message at the end of this post 😀
Happy Valentines Day to you, and may the highest frequencies of love and joy always accompany you!

Cupid

Cupid: Self love

The Love Of Self:
It’s not a short-term exercise, this self-love. And it’s greater than you. You see, when you exercise self-love and kindness, it’s easier to be kind and loving to those around you because it’s changing your energy state—your frequency.
Now, I’m not talking about narcissistic behavior, that’s not real self-love. Narcissism is self-aggrandization caused by a lack of self-esteem which is the opposite of self-love. Because, if you really love yourself, others’ view of you don’t matter.
So, self-love is choosing what’s right for your continued high-frequency vibrations of love. That means long-term choices that are good for your future and environment. And one thing that keeps things healthy for you and others is boundaries. Rethink your boundaries.

Cupid Boundaries

About Love in 2021:
It’s a work in progress—a bit of a roller-coaster. Lots of plot twists. Many singles will be changing statuses. Many married will be renegotiating their roles or boundaries, and those that are just out of relationships will have to take the time to heal (mostly themselves).
This is not the year for rebounds. No-one wants to be one any more because that’s not a loving way to treat oneself or another. Ask me later about rebound signs. For now, love yourself first, then others—like in airline safety videos.

Cupid Rebounds

Juno

Juno self image

Self-image is crucial, but it goes beyond Zoom and online profiles. It’s what you see in your mirror. See Cupid’s self-love messages.
Find others who understand your self-image. They just might understand you in a relationship. That said, look to your health when shopping for new clothes and shoes. It will make you feel better. And if your can’t love your skin, how can you expect your partner to do so. Natural is cheaper, healthier and less time-consuming.
Let your partner love you as you are naturally and it’s less likely you’ll fear losing them in five years time because they’ll love the unique in you. Love the unique in them. This is how one finds True Love.

Juno True love

Mercury

Mercury Long Distance

Write a love letter. Even if you don’t send it, they’ll feel its energy. Long distance love is easier than you think. It just takes a little more maturity and trust and fidelity. If you don’t have all three, stay away from it and leave it to those who do.

Shakti

Shakti Love forks in the road.

Love is a many-pronged thing with many forks in the road. Not all decisions will be easy. It takes awareness and attention to realise your paths are too divergent and even more attention and love from you and your partner to make decisions that make your paths convergent, much less walk the same path together. Look always to the future, not the past, and honour all compromises that make your path together easier and full of love.

Shiva

Shiva Count on love

In times of fear and confusion, love should be the one thing that you can count on. If it’s not, it isn’t love.
Love is not meant to be a burden. If it feels like it, you’re miscommunicating.
Love is meant to bring you joy. If your enter a partnership feeling less than joy, it’s not a loving partnership you’re entering. Make sure your feelings are reciprocated.

Lakshmi

Lakshmi Love enhances

If you’re seeking love, don’t let it be at the expense of everything else in your life. Love is meant to enhance, not take away from you.
Some may love you, but not want to be with you. That is their choice; no use in trying to change it. There are others who’d consider themselves lucky to be with you and love you just as deeply. Why give your full attention to those who are stingy with theirs?

Saraswathi

Saraswathi Pretty words

Pretty words don’t always express pretty feelings. Intention does not equal action and is meaningless until action is made in a positive direction. Let actions speak. Let the true meaning of words be revealed by their underlying energy. Why suffer liars when they only bring suffering? And if you lie to yourself, you have only yourself to blame. Recognise this, let go and move on.

QuanYin

QuanYin Love blossom

Love is a blossom in many states, in many dimensions.
It is easy to focus on one state, one dimension, but this is like a flower blooming with only one petal. It is unbalanced. It is incomplete.
Others have spoken of self-love and self-care and producing good, strong petals but it is still not the whole of an abundant, balanced blossom.
There are many kinds of love: love for humanity, love for the natural world, love for Mother Earth, love for deities and other beings, love for things, love for experiences… A healthy blossom has balance and structure, so do not concentrate on only one or two types of love when there is so much more love in your life and around you to help you blossom into the beautiful Love that you are.
Happy Valentine’s Day. May love in all its forms blossom continuously in your heart.

Looking for more Valentines and Post Valentines messages? Listen to your weekly bonus tarotscope, or watch my Pick-A-Cards on YouTube.

BiMonthly Tarotscopes: End May to End June 2022

Your free tarot heads up for May and June Better late than never! Some interesting progress for some signs (well done Aries!) and still some way to go for others; confirming many of your weekly tarotscopes!

Get Your Channelled General Message Letter for 2022

This will the third year running that we’ve offered this, and looking back I’m still blown away by the wisdom and group messages that have come through since 2019. Have a look at last year’s Valentine’s Messages for us all. Many thanks to those whose requests for letters and messages brought out these pearls of light for us all!

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Valentines Letter 2021 From Shakti And Juno

In which I’m asked to reconsider certain definitions and expectations, and a reminder that I’ve already experienced unconditional love from four amazing beings.

This year, my channeled Valentines Letter was quite different in that I received a blended message from the goddesses Shakti and Juno. I was a little confused and was trying to process these two seemingly very different energies when this came through:

Quote love adapt to newness
…you have to adapt to new ideas and newness…

No kidding! Fortunately, most of the message was very positive and about love.
As in previous years, letters kept to a main theme. This year, for me, it’s Merging. And suddenly the blended message and energies begin to make a lot more sense! I love how my guides and the universe conveys these themes 😀
Without getting into personal detail, here’s what else came through, some of which I think (and hope) will resonate with some of you.

quote merging and expanding love
…merging and expanding of all you can be…

This, as mentioned before, is the main theme for my love year. I like that merging includes expanding and not contracting, and that it’s not sacrificing my self-growth in order to experience love or vice versa. But that’s not all that was said about merging.

quote love commitment marriage
Maybe a better word is commitment…

This was extremely interesting to me. I knew they were referring to my past lives. Thinking back on past live regressions and meditations, I can see what they mean and why my soul might be reluctant to risk marriage even though my heart desires it. I was a little disappointed at first as I’ve been clearing and disconnecting and de-cording from past lives, people and experiences for so long that I thought there was no more I could do. Then I realized that Shakti and Juno were asking me to redefine my concept and interpretations of marriage and all that my soul believes it would bring. It looks like a good way of exploring marriage as a merging, instead of a loss of identity and independence.

There is no more waiting for you or by you.

I love this! I’ve been waiting to hear this forever! It’s about time, right? And if they had mentioned patience and Divine Timing one more time…But they didn’t, so this makes for my favorite part of the letter 😀

Wow! They’re right. I do. I’ve been working on not dishonoring myself to be more popular. It’s harder than I thought, but at least I’m aware if I’m about to do that and of the possible consequences.
I’m in the process of deleting my FB account. That’s a huge step in honoring myself instead of what society thinks a writer’s platform should look like. I’m feeling hugely liberated and attuned more to my authentic self. It’s opening space to expand my commitment to my writing and what that should look like. I’ll still be on Twitter, but I like leaving those short notes and it feels more like me than FB posts. So, no. I won’t be meeting my guy via FB or other social media. That’s so not me.

…Give thanks to the doggies for all their love and test-running of what harmonious and loving relationships look like—of how unconditional love hurts and how quickly it heals those hurts.

I love this as well, and it’s so true. I’ve been blessed to have the love of four exceptional doggies—none my own and two I didn’t spend all that much time with—all doggie nephews and nieces. It’s not that all doggies love me, but the Big Black Shuck, Ms Snarky, SeeSee and the Little White Doggie have all shown me what unconditional love looks and feels like. It’s forgiving the Big Black Shuck for deconstructing things or biting his sister, and his undying affection despite my scolding and being so strict with him over biscuits. It’s the easy togetherness and understanding of sublime things with Ms Snarky, and the fun exuberance and deep compassion of Miss SeeSee. And it’s the misunderstanding with the Little White Doggie when I carried the Kinda-Big-White doggie (his partner) more than him. Yes, I got the stink-eye and the I’m-hurt-to-the-core-and-how-could-you speech, until the little doggie realized I was only carrying the kinda-cute-but-absolute-bully to give him a rest. The Little White Doggie took just a day to understand and even attempted to rescue my slipper to show we were all good! So, yes, huge thanks and love to the doggies.

I’m still pondering the first part of this message. I guess I have to weigh some of that merging and expansion against my life path and decisions in the future. The second part I got at once. I’d carried so much baggage that wasn’t my own (an empath’s burden) that it took me a long time to clear myself of others’ energy, draining of my energy (the can-you-just-do-that-for-me’s and, of course, it’s never just once) and baggage dumped on me. I don’t have to do that any more, unless I really, really want to! Also, I think it means that if I travel soon, or at all, that I should only carry light bags that I can walk with from one end of a terminal to the other without feeling I’ve run an 80-mile marathon.

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Ah, yes…I’m happy and looking forward to this merging and expanding in love. Thank you, Shakti and Juno!

If you’d like to get your own randomly channelled Valentine’s Letter, then fill in the form at the bottom of my previous post.
I’ll be sharing some of the insights from those letters and three general messages around Valentines Day or just after.

Happiness in love and expansion to you!

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